In an effort to find my next blog topic, I checked out what wickipedia had to offer on the subject of Prom. More interesting than the dry "prom is a social event where dates dress up and dance..." was the link to an entry on "anti-prom" which conveniently led me to the
official anti-prom website. Here's the scoop: there are kids out there, organizing, and quite well, i might add,
against the prom. What I can't decide is if this idea appeals to me or not. On the one hand, I really admire students for questioning the principles and norms of prom. Why is it, after all, that there's so much hype and so much money over something that's nothing more than a social construct? It's important for people, especially students, to challenge things lest everything stay the same boring way forever and ever. On the other hand, it seems like these students are going to extremes to make the prom seem wicked or evil.
I'm on the fence.
There is something about prom, something at it's core, about getting together with everyone you've just endured the last four years of your life with and celebrating the end, that I like.
But there are some things about prom that really tick me off, the biggest being the endless struggle for perfection, and not just any perfection, but
normal perfection. If you've been reading my blog all along than it should come as no shock to you that I have problems with the necessity to fit into a certain mold in order to be a successful prom attendant. After all, everyone's different and high school is indicative of difference: preps, jocks, freaks, ditzes, geeks, goth, stoners, bad-guys, sweethearts, political, shy, acne, purple hair...high school has all of that and much more! Don't believe me? Then I recommend you disregard your high school experience and watch any number of movies and tv shows set in high school in which all of those characters are present.
Anyway, I feel strongly that purple hair girl should be at prom, with everyone else, having as much fun as the jocks and the preps and the stoners. If, for whatever reason, purple hair isn't welcome at a prom, well, then, consider me anti-prom.